I am trying to finish this book before I leave. It is about the occupation of the Philippines by Japan. It is sprinkled with many Tagalog words and is in the literary style of magical realism. I guess I have 18 hours of flight to finish, but I know I will probably talk to the other fellows instead. 

Culture Shock is a really interesting series of books for navigating social customs and etiquette.  In some countries I have traveled in, conflict is part of everyday and life, and one sees arguments over prices and small annoyances. According to Culture Shock, Filipino culture emphasize getting along and it is shameful to bicker or fight in public. Compromises must be arranged and settled in calm, friendly ways.